To Do Unique Things, Control What You Pay Attention To

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“I do what is unique to do; the rest doesn’t disturb me.” Marcus Aurelius

Your success depends on what you pay attention to. Your success depends on what you do every day. Don’t waste your time on useless things. They can’t help you. The only thing they can do to you is to hurt you.

Life is too short to play with. Don’t play with yours. It is too precious. If something is not helping you, don’t do it. And don’t be afraid to take on things that can really help you. Don’t listen to what people think of you. It is none of your business. You must listen to your inner self. You must listen to how you are feeling about what you are doing. Don’t ignore your feelings.

When it comes to your life, your career, your relationships, how you feel is VERY important. You will not mess up if you listen to your feelings. If you feel good about what you are doing, keep doing it. But if you don’t feel good about it, don’t be scared to ask the REAL questions. Because if you don’t question yourself, no one will question you. It is your life. Don’t be scared to question how you feel about it.

When you do unique things, you will get unique results. You need to know how you spend your time. Don’t waste it. Don’t listen to people who are not doing anything. Listen to those who are getting things done. If you have negative people as your friends, it is time to get rid of them. But do it with respect. Don’t burn the bridge. But do whatever you can to get away from them. Because if you keep them, you are stopping yourself from moving forward. Don’t keep terrible things, but do everything to get rid of bad things that are hurting you.

You must do what is unique; the rest must not disturb you. That is how to live a unique life.