If You Want To Do Well In Your Life, Stop Spending Your Time With Talkers

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Who are you spending your time with? Where are you spending much of your time? How are you spending your time? Are you spending your time on irrelevant or relevant things? How you spend your time matters. Time is precious. What you do with your time matters. You can recover everything, but you cannot recover your lost time.

“Your life is precious. Your time is precious.”

If you waste your time, you will never get it back. If you fail exam, you can do it again. If you lost your wallet, you can buy another one. If you lose your car, you can buy another one. If you lost your job, you can get another one. But if you waste your time, you can never recover it back. If you waste your time, you are wasting your life. You cannot separate your time from your life. They are one and the same. They are good friends. They are conjoined twins. You are your time. Your time is you.

If you want to know how you are spending your time, what you are spending your time on, with whom you are spending your time, check what you do on a daily basis. Check your journal. Check your calendar. They will tell you how you are spending your time. Time is precious. Don’t waste it. Do not spend your time on things that will not get you closer to your dreams. Do not spend your time with people who are not getting things done. Do not spend your time with talkers. Spend your time with doers.

“How you spend your time is your choice. Spend it wisely.”

A lot f people are just talkers, not doers. To do well in your life, you need doers, not talkers. You can limit yourself. Your friends can limit your growth. Spend your time wisely. Don’t spend your time with dreams killers. The choice is always yours. Nobody can waste your life if you don’t waste it yourself. People cannot spoil your life if you don’t give them the ticket to fly into your life. They cannot talk you out of your dreams if you do not allow them into your life.

You need to spend time with people who are interested in your dreams. You need to spend time with people who are praying for you. You need to spend time with people who are happy. You need to spend time with people who are optimistic about life. You need to be around people who are not comfortable with the status quo. You need to spend time with people who bring out the best in you. You need to spend time with people who are lifting you up, not putting you down. You need to spend time with people who are comfortable with your mistakes. Most importantly, you need to spend time with yourself. You need yourself to help others. You need yourself to help yourself.

“You need yourself to help yourself.”

A sick doctor cannot help a sick patient.  Before you start your day, make sure you have everything planned out. Do not start your day without knowing what to do first. If you don’t know the first thing to do, you will not know the second thing to do. As a result, your day will run you, not you running your day. If you want to be successful, if you want to be happier or happy, you must master your day.