Blaming is Toxic

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Blaming is toxic. It is easier for us to blame people than to blame ourselves for what is going on in our lives. No matter what you are going through, no matter where you are in life, don’t blame anyone, embrace it. Love it.

Blaming people for your actions is an ineffective way of dealing with your situation. Remember, your situation is unique to you. Your challenges and problems are unique to you, so embrace them.

Blaming is toxic, because it is dangerous to your health, to your creative mind, and to your future happiness. Blaming yourself or people steals your happiness away. It makes you think you are a victim of circumstances. Blaming prevents you from taking full control of your life. It renders you powerless. Remember, you are the only person who can change your situation- the way you think, the way you treat people, the way you treat yourself. You can control your life by controlling how you think, and what you think about.

If you really want to focus on making yourself and your life better, you must stop blaming yourself and others for your problems. They are your problems, no one else’s. Instead of blaming, start challenging yourself to do better, live better, and to love better. Start taking responsibility to make your life a livable one.

When you take responsibility for your actions, it makes you feel better about yourself. It gives you the opportunity to act and change your life. Blaming makes things worse for you, responsibility makes things better for you.

If you want things to get better for you, start taking responsibility for your own actions.

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Final Defeat

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We all have experienced terrible loses in life. It is a part of our lives. If you haven’t experienced one, it is either you are not trying hard enough, or you are just playing it too safe.

When you are planning or cultivating your path to success, don’t just focus on the good side of it, you should also plan on how you are going to deal with adversity, obstacles, and frustrations. You are going to experience lots of them. They are there waiting for you to come. If you want success badly, you will go. It is not what happened to you that matters now. It is what you do with it after you have experienced it that matters. Are you going to quit, or are you going to stick with it until you succeed?

When you are planning or cultivating your path to success, don’t just focus on the good side of it, you should also plan on how you are going to deal with adversity, obstacles, and frustrations.”

Success and failure are on the same street. You cannot separate them. If you want to succeed, you must be ready to fail. It is after you’ve failed, then you learn how to succeed. First failure is not failure, it is experimenting time. If you fail the first time, don’t quit. Stick with it, learn it, and start again. People fail because they take the first misstep as the final failure. Don’t do that. It is not your last chance. It is your first chance. It is not your last shot at success. Try again. People fail because they can’t move past the first misstep.

If you want to succeed, you must be ready and willing to move past the first misstep. If you do, you will succeed.