People are really good at heart. Anne Frank said, “I keep ideals, because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart.” Sometimes people don’t really mean to harm us. People want to be good to us. They don’t want to hurt you, but their actions may not come across to you the way they intended.
We are upset when people’s actions, their words do not match their intentions. If you find yourself in such a situation, just let the person know your real intentions.
Eleanor Roosevelt said, “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach our eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.”
You are here on earth for a reason. So, make that reason a reality. Your purpose here on earth is to live your life, accomplish your dreams, to live a powerful legacy behind. It is not to waste your time, not to pursue other people’s dreams. You are here to be happy, not to be unhappy. Though you cannot avoid both emotions. They are real.
To know whether you are living your life or not, ask yourself, “Am really living my life or not?”
To live your life does not have to be all about MONEY. No, not about money. It is ALL about taking care of yourself, that means knowing what you want, who you are, loving yourself, staying true to yourself, and loving other people. You cannot love yourself without loving other people. But it is safe to love yourself first. If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love others. It is when you love yourself abundantly then you can extend that love to others. The real thing is that it has to be a genuine love.
People don’t live their lives enough because they live in fear. They fear everything: they fear people, they fear success, they fear what people are thinking about them, they fear hanging out with people (hopefully the right people), just write a few.
To really live your life, as I mentioned before, it is not about money. It is about YOU- your values. It is about acknowledging the things around you (both positive and negative). It is about embracing change and coping well with new things and with new situations. You cannot enjoy your life without embracing change. Change is the only thing that is constant. Whether you know it or not, we are changing every day.
To live your life also means you must see challenges as ways for you to test yourself, and to know yourself better. Do not see challenges as problems. If you do, you cannot enjoy your life.
True unconditional love is free, but powerful. You don’t have to search for love, pray for true unconditional love.
“There is love, there is real or true love, and there is unconditional love. To my understanding, there is nothing that can replace true unconditional love.”
When people love you unconditionally, they don’t care how you look, how you behave, or how you talk. They care about you. They focus on you, not your behavior. When people love you unconditionally, they don’t expect anything in return. They accept who you are. They appreciate and celebrate you, and they know where you are coming from. In other words, they understand you. They don’t focus on your mistakes, on your flaws, or on failures.Instead, they focus and celebrate you.
Don’t go out there and start searching for love, give love to people. They will give love back to you. True love.
Elizabeth Kubler Ross says, “The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.”
The true unconditional love you are looking for starts with you. In other for people to love you, you MUST first love yourself. Give it to yourself. Don’t wait for people to love you before you love yourself. If you do, you will be disappointed. Nobody has time for you the way you will have time for yourself. If you don’t have time for yourself, no one will.