Rabindranath Tagore said, “You can’t cross the sea merely by standing and staring at the water.”
“Every man has his own destiny: the only imperative is to follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads.”- Henry Miller, writer
“Change your thoughts and you change your destiny.”– Dr. Joseph Murphy
In order to change your life, you have to first change how you view the world around you. If you don’t change how you see things, the things you want to change will not change.
You can change what is not working for you by taking positive actions. Only actions can change your life. You can plan, talk, dream all you want, but if you don’t support your dream with actions, it will remain a dream.
You can change your life by taking positive actions. You can start by taking small actions. The things that you do today will create your destiny. Small actions, if you practice them every day, will determine your destiny.
James Allen said, “A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts.” If you want a great life, think great thoughts. If you want to be healthy, wealthy, happy, and successful, flood your mind with positive thoughts.
Everything about you is in your own hand. You are the only one who can make your life better. No one is capable of changing your life, but you.
You can change your life by what you do, by what you think about all day long, and by the choices you make on a daily basis.
You can change your life by changing what you think about on a daily basis. If you spend your time thinking about negative things, if you spend your time thinking about what is not working for you, if you spend your time dwelling on the past, negative things will follow. But if you do the opposite, positive things will follow. You need positive thoughts to live your life. Positive thoughts are life-building thoughts. Negative thoughts, on the other hand, are life-destroying thoughts.
As Dr. Joseph Murphy puts it, “Your subconscious is the builder of your body and is on the job twenty-four hours a day. You interfere with its life-giving patterns by negative thinking.” The way you think about your life and the things that are happening around you affects your life more than what you do.
To have a better life, you must think in positive ways. Positive thoughts equal positive actions. Negative thoughts equal negative actions.
Change your thoughts to change your life. Yes, you can do it.
“Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself.”– Robert Collier
What do you think about yourself? Do you believe in yourself? Do you trust yourself? Do you often criticize yourself? It is okay to do these things. We are human. But it is not okay to allow them to control your life.
Self-belief is the key to success. If you don’t believe in yourself, in your talents, in your skills, you will not succeed. And people will not trust you. If you believe in yourself, in your talents, in your skills, you will succeed.
Why is it so important?
It is important because your beliefs affect your life. Your beliefs affect your behavior. They control your behavior. They control your attitude.
If you see yourself as a loser, you will be a loser. If you see yourself as a champion, you will be a champion. If you see yourself as an incompetent person, you will be incompetent.
You can change whatever you believe about yourself. You can change it by changing your mindset. Instead of telling yourself negative things, from now on, start telling yourself positive things. Wherever you go, focus on the light, not the darkness. Celebrate your accomplishments. Don’t focus on what is not working for you. Focus on what is working for you. Try new things to build your self-confidence back up. Don’t hang around negative people. They will deplete your energy.
Don’t ever think you can’t do something. There is nothing you cannot do if you want it badly. If you think you can do it, you can do it. If you think you cannot, there is no amount of coaching or support that is going to help you. Believe in yourself, and you will get a lot done in life. Jim Rohn said, “You can change all things for the better when you change yourself for the better.” If you change, your situation will change.
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”– George Bernard Shaw
Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating your real self. You should spend your time developing yourself, not trying to find who you are. We are not perfect. And we will never be perfect. If you are looking for perfection, you still have a long way to go.
Life is about doing better every day. Life is not about living other people’s dreams. It is about growing yourself, moving yourself forward.
You create yourself by living for yourself, by thinking for yourself, by loving yourself, by asking the right questions, by challenging yourself, by believing in yourself, by being honest with yourself and others.
When you engage in the game of finding yourself, you will miss your real self. You create yourself by embracing who you are, not who you are trying to be. Be happy with who you are, and you will enjoy your life.