If you want to love people, don’t judge them. People don’t want you to judge them, they want you to love them. If you love them, they will love you back. if you hate them, they will hate you back.
Life is too short to not love people. If you love people, you are loving yourself. If you value yourself, if you respect yourself, if you love yourself, you will not have time to judge others.
“If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love others.”
When you judge people, you are focusing on their mistakes, you are focusing on their differences, you are focusing on their weaknesses. Instead of doing that, why not spend that time in loving them. Why not spend that time in bringing out the best in them.
To love others, you have to love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love others.
Instead of judging people, instead of focusing on what they are not good at, focus on knowing them, focus on knowing who they are, focus on where they have been, and what they have experienced. Listen. They have a lot to teach you. Listen to them, and you will learn. They will teach you what you did not know about yourself.
Don’t judge me, love me.