The power of unconditional love

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True unconditional love is free, but powerful. You don’t have to search for love, pray for true unconditional love.

There is love, there is real or true love, and there is unconditional love. To my understanding, there is nothing that can replace true unconditional love.”

When people love you unconditionally, they don’t care how you look, how you behave, or how you talk. They care about you. They focus on you, not your behavior. When people love you unconditionally, they don’t expect anything in return. They accept who you are. They appreciate and celebrate you, and they know where you are coming from. In other words, they understand you. They don’t focus on your mistakes, on your flaws, or on failures.Instead, they focus and celebrate you.

Don’t go out there and start searching for love, give love to people. They will give love back to you. True love.

Elizabeth Kubler Ross says, “The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.”

The true unconditional love you are looking for starts with you. In other for people to love you, you MUST first love yourself. Give it to yourself. Don’t wait for people to love you before you love yourself. If you do, you will be disappointed. Nobody has time for you the way you will have time for yourself. If you don’t have time for yourself, no one will.

Give yourself love, real love!


Everything happens in your mind

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What is happening to us is not as a result of where we live, what we do, rich or poor, sad or happy, pessimistic or optimistic, educated or uneducated, it is determined by how we feel inside our mind, body and soul.

It does not matter where you live or what you do, if your inner life is not at peace with you, your outer life will pay the price. Your mind has a life of its own. If you want to have a healthy and a happy life, take care of your mind. Everything happens in your mind. Yes, in your mind.

Take care of your inner life, so that your outer life will take care of itself. If you are sick inside, there is nothing your doctor can do to save you. Real sickness is not physical sickness. It is emotional and psychological sickness.

To take care of your soul, don’t do anything contrary to who you are inside, don’t eat unhealthy food, meditate, exercise, practice yoga, read good books, travel, meet positive people, and most importantly, pray. Always pray.”

It is how you feel inside that will determine how you feel outside. if you feel terrible inside, you will feel terrible outside. Your soul takes care of your body. So, take care of your soul to take care of your body. James Allen said,”The outer conditions of a person’s life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.”

Your inner life is more important than the outer life. Take care of it.

If you want to achieve your dreams, do this one thing now

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Success starts with taking the first step. The first step is the golden step to success. You cannot be successful if you don’t take the first step.

This is where people get paralyzed. They are afraid to take the first step. Believe me, if you don’t take the first step, if you don’t make the decision to succeed, if you don’t take the first initiative, nothing will happen. You will remain where you are. I don’t think that is what you want for yourself.

To take the small step, to take the baby step, to take the novice step, to take the first special step, you must first know who you are, where you are going, and what is important to you. Knowing those things will make the journey easier for you.

No matter what you are planning to do in life, don’t wait for the perfect time, take the first step. Take the first scary step. It is the first step that is difficult to take. If you can take it, you will reach your goals.

People don’t take the first step to succeed because they are preoccupied with what people will say about them. They are scared not to fail. They are comfortable with what they are doing, or they don’t know how to move forward.

Life begins with a step.”

People don’t care about what you are doing. It is all in your head. Don’t waste your time thinking of people, think about your journey- how to be successful.

No matter what you are planning to do in life, don’t wait for the perfect time, take the first step.”

Remember, according to Chinese proverb, “The journey of a thousand miles MUST begin with a small step.”

Yes, it begin with a step. Life begins with a step. Your day begins with a step. Your dream MUST begin with a small step. A baby step. Take it, so that you can become a better person.

If you want to succeed in life, invest in yourself.

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If you want to compete in today’s competitive job market, you must invest in yourself. You must invest in yourself- personally and professionally. That is the only way you can compete with people who are investing in themselves everyday.

Before you invest in yourself, you must do an honest assessment of yourself. It is painful to do, because you are going to find out something you hate about yourself.

In their book The One Minute Manager, Ken Blanchard and Spencer Johnson said, “People who feel good about themselves produce results.” You can invest in yourself. You can do anything that you set your mind to do, but you have to first feel good about yourself.

Remember, self-education is an ongoing process. It never ends. Benjamin Franklin said, “An investment in knowledge pays the best dividends.”

Is he right or wrong? It is up to you.