Nobody Can Help You, But You.

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Nobody can help you succeed, ONLY you can help yourself.

Nobody can help you succeed in life, but you. ONLY YOU. Only you can make yourself a success or a failure. You can help yourself succeed by TAKING RESPONSIBILITY of whatever decisions you make.

You can make yourself a success by CONTROLLING YOUR THOUGHTS. You can make yourself a failure by POINTING FINGERS AT OTHERS FOR YOUR SITUATION. Pointing fingers at others, or blaming others, means you are not responsible for your actions, they are. According to M. Scott Peck, American psychiatrist, “The difficulty we have in accepting responsibility for our behavior lies in the desire to avoid the pain of the consequences of that behavior.”

Nobody can help you but you. Nobody can help you unless you are willing to start the journey. Nobody can help you unless you are willing to change. If you want to remain in the same place, in the same unproductive job, you don’t need to change.

Nobody Can Help You, But You.”

James Allen said, “A strong man cannot help a weaker man unless the weaker man is willing to be helped, and even then the weak man must become strong in himself; he must, by his own efforts, develop the strength he admires in another.”

Nobody can help you unless you are ready to be uncomfortable.

What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself.” — Abraham Maslow, a renowned psychologist.

Changing who you think you are to who you REALLY are, is uncomfortable. Nobody can help you unless you “double” your energy. People can only assist you , but they won’t do the REAL work for you. You will do the REAL work yourself.

REAL work: the types of activities that will bring out the best in you. REAL work also means authentic work.


Once people see that you are trying, they will jump on your ride to help you succeed. This will only happen if you allow them into your world. When you are ready, people are ready to help you. When you are not ready, people are not ready to help you. Be ready.